aloeveralotion asked: Q and R betch

Turn ons: Intelligence, music taste, piercings, fitting tattoos, body build? Boys in nicely fitting suits or partially rolled up sleeves while wearing clean cut black dress shirts unf.

Other than the many things that look good, the biggest turn on is if they seem like a visionary. I define a visionary as someone who has an ambitious mind. Someone who’s not too short sighted but not too far sighted.

Oh yeah and if they like trance we might as well do it right now.

Turn offs: Stinginess (just not knowing how to treat a lady.) Immature behavior. The biggest turn off is when I feel like I have to be the one motivating the guy to do something with his life… or if he is more emotional than I am. We can mutually motivate and support each other, but if he’s more of a girl than me then there is a big issue. Lacking sophisticated taste is also a big turn off. Like hey I’m down for all the adventuring in the world, I’m low maintenance and you don’t need to please me with money…but a guy who can’t ever set up a nice sophisticated date is just a boy in my opinion.