Anonymous asked: Yes, being a lil sis for a fraternity will develop strong bonds but you're really just throwing money out the window the party and get drunk. You don't need to pay fees to intermingle with new friends and develop strong "family" type bonds. Being a "little sis" never had the best reputation. and they still don't. You should've rushed for a professional fraternity like delta sigma pi or AKPsi...

Yeah I’ve heard from both sides here and there- people who have pledged and depledged, people who have hated the system to begin with, people who are in it and still love it… etc etc etc. I know people who are still close friends with each fraternity without being committed, but it’s definitely different to actually be a part of the collective whole. I appreciate your opinion too, but I’ve already decided to rush professional Fall next year LOL. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve heard the same old opinions from people who are just looking at it from the outside. It was my decision and whether or not I regret it/stick with it is ultimately up to me.